Nero - been through the McBaccy and C&C lines...no matches. All MickeyB's darks are laced with katsup and C&D makes no real flakes (yeah, I know they do up the 2 new ones of Gregs, but they're really more like 'crumble-flakes'...and none of the flavors they produce do the same thing in the bowl.
djf1 - Reiner's Long Golden Flake, being a Burley based item, at least has that going for it...but little else. For me it tends to burn hot and the flavors are far away from Stonehaven.
hobie - it's for the specific reason that Stonehaven has become elusive that I need a stand-in!
As a point of interest, we all know that Germaine makes Stonehaven...right? Well they also make a flake named "Dark Flake" which is 'Stonehaven for Europe' or something like that as they distribute it over there but not here...and vice versa with Stonehaven. So if anyone has a connection across the pond, they could score that way.
So let me throw this out there: for a blend to have the same characteristics as Stonehaven, I'm thinking that it can't be straight VA. There has to be some Burley in there or those dark back-notes wouldn't be there. In addition, sadly, I think it has to be pressed for the flavors, etc. to meld. There are several blends out there that come close to 'the Stoner' (Burley blends as chance would have it) but the burn rate is way off so they smoke faster and the flavoring is different (it needs that 'treacle' flavoring...raisin/molassas/fig) in the first place.
Also...lookin' at the family tree sometimes is benificial. To ME, Stonehaven and a lot of other similar blends, derive from or are related to...Edgeworth! Again, to ME John Patton's Storm Front (a glorious mashup of 2 Burleys and cigar leaf) comes the closest in the 2nd half of the bowl. It gets very deep, lots of dark background, flavor is pretty close. But the first half is off...since it's loose it smokes faster and warmer.
I think what this town needs is a compilation of 'Stonehaven wanna-bes'...I just love basic research! So I'll entertain opinions, data, whatever that is PM'd to me...plus I'll re-visit my own cellar and go over the likely suspects again and try to note how they are similar and how they differ.
So please, PM me your picks and thought on the subject and I'll publish the results here.
Anyway, thanks for your help.