Nevada*. One of the most opposite-of-NYC you will EVER find. Work options are limited, but if you're creative, you can make it work. Reno has just enough convenience to make for civilized life, and if you drive about half an hour in any direction, you'll be people-free like you wouldn't believe. Mountains, lakes, deserts and even the Pacific ocean four hours away, cost of living is reasonable and you still get four seasons. Plus, your pipes dry out in half the time! :cheers:
(*...does not include "Las Vegas," which is actually part of California, just not legally...)