I did my quarterly reconciliation today and came to the conclusion that I spend too much money on things I don't really need. It's not that I'm even dipping into savings or investments. In fact, I probably am keeping too much money in my daily expense checking account. Before my wife's death and when I was putting my daughters through college, I still managed to save/invest a decent portion of my income. Now, I have absolutely no desire to invest and grow my estate. As a result, I think I spend too much on impulse purchases. I've resolved a few times to clamp down on spending, but then I realize that I have no reason not to buy what I can afford. Unless I have a very long protracted illness that exceeds my four years of long term care insurance, my daughters will get a modest inheritance.
However, for 2022, if I'm still alive and healthy, I'm going to see what kind of $$ I can accumulate if I only buy absolute necessities and seriously cut back my charitable donations.
The year before the pandemic, I paid the daycare expense for my youngest grandchild, without touching savings. This recent year, with daycare closed, I took care of her myself. A fiscally reasonable person would be able to account for the money not spent on daycare. I can't. (The year that I paid daycare for the baby, for my three grandchildren, all in daycare, totalled $42,000.) In Mpls.-St. Paul, for licensed daycare for an infant, $1500 to $1800 monthly.
I did discover today that my long term care insurance covers assisted living. I thought, "Why did they add that?" Then I put 2+2 together. My policy covers 48 months. Assisted living cost, on average in MN is $4000/month. Nursing home, $9000/month. The insurance company would much rather pay $192,000 over the 48 months for assisted living than $432,00 for a nursing home.